Need advice

[yolo12]

Im currently 13 years old, and i have 0 idea about all this masturbation stuff really not gonna lie (i mean in like positions and stuff) since i have started, i have always used my fist to rub or just give that place some pleasure but in the end i never feel too satisfied neither did I orgasm. Yes i did try to finger but the thing is, every time i try to do so it like hurts really bad and i feel scared to make it go in more, Any tips? (ill give more information if needed)

[Sofi]

Hi there, welcome to the boards.

You know, there really isn't one or even a couple "right" ways to masturbate. Everyone likes different things, so unfortunately we won't be able to give you specific positions or instructions, only general ways people tend to masturbate. You can read those and more tips here: How Do You Masturbate?

By the way if there is pain, that's a sign to stop, so I'm glad you have listened to your body in those situations. If you do try insertion again, it's good to make sure you're properly lubricated, whether naturally and/or with lube.

Let me know what other questions you have after reading the article I sent!

[lilikoi]

Hello yolo12 and welcome to the boards!

You should not feel any pain during sex or masturbation. During internal stimulation, it is very important that there is lubrication to avoid tearing or friction. Could a lack of lubrication have been a reason for the pain?

For further information, we have a number of articles on the topic of masturbation. Have a look at this one and let us know if you still have questions. Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation