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Nck09
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Prostate

Unread post by Nck09 »

So recently ive been researching alot of ways a male can masturbate including anal (i knew about it before) and i ve been wanting to try it,So i kinda have trouble locating my prostate or i found i lt and just dont feel pleasure from it
.And i ve read the forums on here about it but it didn't really answer me.Mind u i tried using my fingers and a few different brushes,the only time i feel pleasure with something in my butt is when i orgasm idk why that is tho.Thanks for ur help if u can help 😁
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Re: Prostate

Unread post by Heather »

Welcome to the boards, Nck09. :)

You should never put something like a brush in the anus. You'll want to stick to toys designed for anal play, not try and improvise: it's both very easy to get cuts or scratches or tears AND easy for things without a flared base design to get lost inside.

You're also not likely to be able to have the kind of leverage or reach needed with your own hands for prostate stimulation: you'd need a partner for that.

I'm not sure I completely understand what you're asking here, but if what you're looking to understand is why you're not feeling anything amazing from what you've tried so far, it is probably a matter of both high expectations and simply not having the right tools to really explore prostate stimulation on your own.
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