Heyy kinda help please

[56Jojo]

Heyyy so i have been talking to this guy on snap then we moved to messages i know what he looks like he knows what i look like and i am asking for help because i think i like him and we are going to meet soon i am just scared that 1. he would try to initial something when we meet 2. when i tell him i am a virgin he might lose interest and i am scared idk what to do should i tell home when we call so he knows what’s up or in person ( i feel like a call is better because if he wants to back out he can and i don’t get too attached)

Any advice would be great thank youu ( i am 17 he is 18)

[Latha]

Hello and welcome to the boards, 56Jojo! We'd be happy to provide advice about this guy that you are meeting.

I want to start by saying two things: One, if he suggests doing something sexual, you can respond honestly. You don't have to say yes if you don't feel ready, and you can say yes to some activities and not others. He should respect that.

Two, I understand that you like this guy and don't want to be rejected, but if this guy loses interest when you tell him you are a virgin, that means he is not the right person for you. His response would reflect his priorities, not your value as a partner. There is nothing strange or wrong with not having had sex before.

As for when you should tell him... I think it would be okay to do it on call or in person, but you are right about the advantages of telling him on call. Do you feel comfortable mentioning it?