Pregnancy scare

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Pregnancy scare

Unread post by Kiev »

Can I ask for some help, please? I'm sorry if i sound uneducated but I really need help.

So me and my gf were making out and stuff, she sat on me and I didn't realise but have had pre cum. However, we were fully clothed with our underwear and pants on but all our clothes were quite thin, but the precum made my pants and her pants damp. The damp spot was near her vagina. She just had her menstruation from the past couple days. She said she had a paste like discharge hours before we made-out. Will she get pregnant? What are the possibilities? I'm really desperate, I know its tmi but i do need the answers.
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Re: Pregnancy scare

Unread post by Heather »

Hi there, Kiev. Welcome to the boards. This isn't TMI, talking about sex is a big part of why we're here.

People can't become pregnant through clothing: if and when there were even sperm cells present in the first place (pre-ejaculate most typically doesn't contain them), those cells both need all the fluids they are ejaculated with to create a pregnancy, but they also can't be pushed through something like fabric and not be damaged.

You can find out more about all that's needed to create a pregnancy, so you can be more at ease with things like this, and know when you have realistic risks to manage or prevent and when you don't, here: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/pregnan ... rers-guide
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Kiev
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Re: Pregnancy scare

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Thank you so much, I highly appreciate it
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