masturbation is not pleasurable at all

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confuseder
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masturbation is not pleasurable at all

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i’m 18f and i’ve masturbated before, though never with direct skin contact. i’ve never made myself finish and i’ve recently tried to do so the way i’d do on someone else, but i feel absolutely nothing from any contact and it’s honestly a really uncomfortable experience. i don’t know what to do.
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Re: masturbation is not pleasurable at all

Unread post by Sofi »

Hi confuseder,

So we can understand the situation better, could you let me know what you mean by not feeling anything from any contact (no pleasure, or no sensation whatsoever?) and whether you’re making contact directly with your clitoris, vagina, or other parts of your vulva? You also said it feels uncomfortable, is it painful or just a weird sensation?
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