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Where does one get good porn/fantasy fodder?

Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2026 9:13 pm
by insert_username
Man i swear I cant stop posting but I have too many questions and I think i need community input on this.

Where do you find like. Good visual erotica like porn and stuff. Like I get that the hub exists and onlyfans n whatnot, and I havent been there yet at all, but i just wonder if theres accessible (free no payment) things yall do to like. Help you understand what it is you might like sexually and stuff? Im mainly trying to figure that out independently because I dont really have a partner or what not, and i havent had interest in that sort of thing, so I sort of need like. Fantasy fodder? But im stumped as all shit. Cause for now I can like masturbate all i can and feel pleasure (and perhaps plateau? Unsure) but the thoughts department (of which is always unfocused and wandering for some reason) isnt all that stimulating or interesting because I have such an extremely small frame of reference for it. It is very hard to conjure up images of shit you never saw before, i tried.
It's only recently i read any sort of smut, but I want to just. Understand it. Like maybe ill enjoy it or maybe not but im curious where to start.
This is really in the audio-visual department (video) for ive kind of got smut/text erotica covered (ao3 lmao) but it hasn't done much to me as of late, even though I got super aroused from something I was reading one time and im unsure what it was that caused it and how to replicate it with other fiction even from the same author/series.

Yeah so uh. Any ideas for fantasy fodder or something? Where to find it and all that? Ty!

Re: Where does one get good porn/fantasy fodder?

Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2026 12:28 pm
by Straif
Hi insert_username,
This is a good question, and I'm glad that you're thinking about finding visual porn that is ethically made. Unfortunately, the number one way to do that is to pay for your porn. We can't direct you to any ethical porn sites directly because it goes against our user policy, but here are two articles that you might find helpful:

Making Sense of Sexual Media
How to Find Queer Media

I am also a big fan of Justine Ang Fonte, who writes a lot about porn literacy and the difference between "mainstream" porn and ethical porn. This is a really good talk that she gave about it.

Give those a look and let us know if you have more questions.