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I'm 17 and want to get a sex toy without my parents knowing how do i do that??

Hi there, welcome to the boards. There are places you can get sex toys at that age such as some online retailers and sometimes some brick and mortar stores, but we don't suggest specific ones here, so it's something you can search in your area. I don't know the specifics of how you get money to buy things, where you live, etc so it's hard to give a more specific answer. That said, many folks DIY their own sex toy, and we have an article with some ideas for that, if you're interested in it let me know.

Can I use a massager to masterbate

Hello Brogan12!

Yes, you can use a massager to masturbate. It is best to use one that isn't shared with anyone else, and to use it externally--the material may not be safe for internal use.

Here is the article that Sofi mentioned, in case you'd like more ideas: D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition