Scarleteen

Hi everyone!

so,

January 14th my bf ejaculated on my leg and he fingered me maybe 2 minutes after? I honestly cannot remember. I have no idea if he got any of his ejacualtion on his hands or not. I was also ovulating i believe ( according to flo). I’m also thinking if it may have dripped off my leg?? i didn’t feel that tho. Also, while he was ejaculating i had my fingers inside myself so, the hole was covered.


then January 30th we dryhumped. He had underwear on but i did not. He didn’t ejaculate. If anything , there’d only be pre-ejaculation!

Thenn February 17th he took his genital out with one hand and his other hand had his fingers in me. I’m not sure if he switched hands or not but his fingers were in me. I don’t think he ever took his fingers out of me honestly but idk.

Then today, March 2nd he just dry humped me again from the back ( same thing me no underwear, him with underwear) i kept feeling around while doing it and it didn’t feel wet from his pre-ejacualtion. but i remember touching at some point and it was wet so im like ?? was that him or me??? then after he like laid on me. still same clothing situation.

I say all of this to say i’m totally panicking about being pregnant. last time i got my cycle was January 2nd. and i haven’t gotten it since. So, im really thinking im pregnant. right now im experiencing cramps but ive been experiencing that for about a week. I’ve googled,
looked on tiktok, and flo, and they also said there is a possibly of me being pregnant. is this true?

Hi lizzyboo,

Welcome to the boards! From what you've described, you can calm your panic. We have a great piece for navigating pregnancy panic here. It walks you through the risks of pregnancy for varying sexual activities.

Another great resource is our Human Reproduction: A Seafarer's Guide. This provides great information about how pregnancy happens and many readers have found it useful for current panic and future understanding. In the first 5 years of having your period, it is really rare to have cycles that are very regular. It is likely just a normal irregularity in your period. Sperm cannot travel through clothes and cannot survive a trip between surfaces like you describe (leg to finger to genitals to uterus).