i miss my future girlfriend

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aliengirl
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i miss my future girlfriend

Unread post by aliengirl »

i have no other place to say this.

i’m not even upset that i can’t have her now. in the least objectifying way possible.

this is so corny lolollll
"If you are not personally free to be yourself in that most important of all human activities... the expression of love... then life itself loses its meaning.” - Harvey Milk
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Re: i miss my future girlfriend

Unread post by KierC »

Aww hi aliengirl :)

This is such a lovely thought, thank you for sharing it! Want to say a little more about how you’re feeling, and what support you’re looking for?
aliengirl
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Re: i miss my future girlfriend

Unread post by aliengirl »

frankly, this is embarrassing but sometimes i imagine my future self and often times it had something to do with my romantic pursuits. i’m wholly unsure if i’m even capable of pursuing someone romantically and it being absolutely normal, but it’s nice to fall asleep with the warm fuzzies.

i think just being able to post that was enough support. i don’t really have an outlet for stuff like that but i know i can post here without being berated so ja :D
"If you are not personally free to be yourself in that most important of all human activities... the expression of love... then life itself loses its meaning.” - Harvey Milk
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Re: i miss my future girlfriend

Unread post by Andy »

Hi aliengirl,

I’m really glad to hear you feel safe to share things here! And there definitely isn’t anything unusual about imagining things like that, I dare say that most people do and enjoy it.

We are here if you ever want to share or talk about more, perhaps about why do you think it might not be possible for you to have having a romantic relationships.
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