Opening up the convo + ideas?
Posted: Sat May 09, 2026 1:12 pm
Hey, this going to be long so bear with me lmao.
For context, me (14m) and my BF (16m) for about over a year now. We are unfortunately a LDR... And honestly, I've been wanting to get sexual. We've been a bit shy about it... (basically the kink conversation and advice on what to do sexually when you're long distance.)
We definitely are sexually compatible theres no doubt.
Earlier in our relationship, I had short conversations about it like,
"oh what are you into" and, at that time he wasn't sure. Which is completely fine. (Although im not sure about that or if he was hiding something from me at the time) We even took a quiz for fun and found out we are way more compatible than we thought.
Later on, we shared porn together lol (usually having like our kinks in it and stuff) and recently i confessed to him that I love his legs and he had inferred from that from my reaction to the pictures he's sent but didn't say much more on that since he's not sure on what to exactly say? (I'm quoting word for word) As well as subtly hinting about the things we like in our shared social media account. Although, I want more direct communication. I'm not sure how to randomly open up the conversation and be direct about it... Because I want to make sure we are on the same page and be vulnerable for once.. (there are some things I'm into that I just casually can't bring up)
I want to do more sexual things with him but I cant really do that if we haven't properly discussed what we want
Even if we aren't ready, thats completely fine. I probably need to reflect more on what I want to do and having that info would help me out alot.
This also bridges into the second question, what are some sexual things I could incorporate into our relationship? Especially since we're LDR... this seems to have stumped me alot
For context, me (14m) and my BF (16m) for about over a year now. We are unfortunately a LDR... And honestly, I've been wanting to get sexual. We've been a bit shy about it... (basically the kink conversation and advice on what to do sexually when you're long distance.)
We definitely are sexually compatible theres no doubt.
Earlier in our relationship, I had short conversations about it like,
"oh what are you into" and, at that time he wasn't sure. Which is completely fine. (Although im not sure about that or if he was hiding something from me at the time) We even took a quiz for fun and found out we are way more compatible than we thought.
Later on, we shared porn together lol (usually having like our kinks in it and stuff) and recently i confessed to him that I love his legs and he had inferred from that from my reaction to the pictures he's sent but didn't say much more on that since he's not sure on what to exactly say? (I'm quoting word for word) As well as subtly hinting about the things we like in our shared social media account. Although, I want more direct communication. I'm not sure how to randomly open up the conversation and be direct about it... Because I want to make sure we are on the same page and be vulnerable for once.. (there are some things I'm into that I just casually can't bring up)
I want to do more sexual things with him but I cant really do that if we haven't properly discussed what we want
Even if we aren't ready, thats completely fine. I probably need to reflect more on what I want to do and having that info would help me out alot. This also bridges into the second question, what are some sexual things I could incorporate into our relationship? Especially since we're LDR... this seems to have stumped me alot