Scarleteen

I’ve recently tried penetrating my vagina and I’ve gotten comfortable with just using one finger. My problem is, why is my vagina so small? I’m not lacking arousal and it doesn’t hurt at all but it just feels like all I can fit is one finger. And when I put the finger in, I feel like a hump at the front wall of my vagina, like there’s something in front of it kinda, is that normal? I’m worried because I want to engage sexually in the future and think I might not be able to.

Hi there, Doomstroyer

Don't worry, being able to only fit one finger right now does not mean your vagina is too small for insertive/PIV sex with a partner. It is really common for this to happen when you are just starting to explore insertion.

Something to keep in mind is that the vagina is not a static tube--it is elastic and muscular, and can change size. What you've noticed so far is the vagina in its contracted state, because there is nothing, or just your finger, inserted inside. It can relax and expand to create more space when necessary. Try to build up to using more fingers, slowing down when you notice any resistance or discomfort/pain.

Along with being aroused in the first place, using lube can help with this process. Do you think you could get access to that, if you wanted it? We'd be happy to answer any questions you have about this topic.

And when I put the finger in, I feel like a hump at the front wall of my vagina, like there’s something in front of it kinda

Could you describe this hump that you've noticed a bit more? Does it feel hard/firm under your fingers? How deep inside is it located, approximately?