Im pretty sure ive asked a somewhat similar question here before but Im still a little confused so I apologize if Im asking the same question more than once.
Ive seen a lot of talk online from people who I am friends with about how consuming certain porn or having a certain kink (such as bdsm, age play, cnc) makes you a bad or dangerous person as you now likely to take that kink outside of porn and consensual sex.
Ive even read stuff from organizations like the NCOSE that pornography that includes acts such as strangulation makes men who watch it more likely to attempt to no consentually strangle their partner in bed. Is there any truth to this?
Ive also been told that doing stuff such as cnc or role-playing problematic power dynamics or incest is disrespectful to victims of the real thing.
Ill admit that I do have an interesting in something like role-playing a power fantasy that would be very problematic irl. If this stuff about being disrespectful and dangerous is correct is there a way to easily "get rid of" that kink?
My next question is a more uncomfortable but I have some friends who are into this kind of stuff, but are also into stuff like lolisho. Does that make them a legitimate danger to young people. If so is this stuff illegal (obviously that part may be tricky since there are no universal laws but in this case I mainly mean the United states) and should I report them to the police or something if that's true?
Finally I apologize if this reads weird I wrote this late at night while very tired
