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adi.das
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Need advice!

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I really like a guy, and we used to talk but he would always have to start cause I'm shy... I was able to get his Snapchat, but when I sent him a Snapchat that I liked him he didn't respond. We talked the next day like nothing happened, and he's helped me lift weights and we used to joke around. Now that my friend knows I like him, she talks and flirts with him. Me and him don't talk anymore really,but they do. Advice?
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Re: Need advice!

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Well, I'm not sure what he and your friend really have to do with this.

You say you really like him: what is it you'd like to do with those feelings? Would you like to pursue some kind of dating relationship with him, for instance? If so, have you communicated that to him yet in any way? If not, that'd be your next step. :)
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