It finally happened

[PenguinsRcool]

Ok so last night it was 1 in the morning don’t know why I couldn’t sleep. Had the urges, did it but wasn’t planning anything big to happen- BUT OH MY it finally happened! I finally had an orgasm and I guess I just needed practice and patience to have it. Took me a while all I wanted was to just finger myself for a couple of minutes but I wanted more so I went to the clit, very slowly (which it was made it successful) and I slowly made it more intense and BOOM it happened. I didn’t even know I could twitch uncontrollably, and also felt tingling on my legs, it was very intense and the best thing I experienced. I took a break for a couple of seconds and I started to finger myself again and I guess I was super wet inside from what happened, I used it as lube so that I could rub myself again and it felt even more sensitive, and did it all over again. I can say that I cummed at least four times last night (dang!) and I feel really happy that I was able to do it.

From that I want to ask what’s up with involuntary movements that I had? And why right before peaking I had the urge to want to have oral sex? (As in with a male genitalia)

I don’t know if this is too much

[Sofi]

Congrats, PenguinsRcool! You had an experience you enjoyed and that’s what really matters. Remember from here on out that you might not always orgasm and that shouldn’t be your end goal when masturbating. Pleasure is the goal, even if orgasm doesn’t happen, and putting that kind of pressure on it makes it less likely to actually happen.

Regarding the movements, sounds like normal muscle spasms and body twitches. Nothing to worry about! And you may have just thought about oral sex because it’s something you’re interested in or intrigued by, or it could just be a fantasy that came up for you in that moment. Fantasies are normal and actually don’t always necessarily reflect what you want in real life. I’m curious what you think and why you’re concerned about it?

[PenguinsRcool]

Well but I do think about it often though, cant know if it’s real desire, interest of the thought itself only, or that I have a crazy imagination. Im not really concerned about it I just wanted to know why because at that moment it was slightly different like I felt my mouth “tingling??” Not sure it’s similar to when you feel empty down there and seriously want to fill it up.

[Anya]

Hey PenguinsRcool,

When we have any kind of intense sensational experience it makes a lot of sense for our other senses to kind of "perk up" and become more sensitive, like what you describe feeling in your mouth. This is a totally normal part of sexual arousal as it often "arouses" more than just the sexual organs. People also describe tingling skin, goosebumps, salvation, all totally normal feelings to have.

For more info you can read up, here: Sexual Response & Orgasm: A User's Guide