Comments on this site's sexual health advice
Posted: Sun Oct 11, 2026 5:02 am
Hey Scarleteam,
I want to preface my post with saying that I am super grateful for the important work you are all doing! What I'm about to discuss is meant as feedback, not senseless criticism.
Having read around this site a lot over the course of 3 years, I've noticed something about the way medical visits are treated. It all seems, for lack of a better term, very culturally US-centric.
What I mean by that is that there is a lot of focus on preventative screenings/checkups. I don't know how wide-spread this attitude is in other cultures, but I do know this is a common stance in the US and not, for example, where I'm from. Here, you only go to a doctor when you have reason to assume something is wrong or you have questions. Screening when healthy is actively discouraged by official health organisations, whether that concerns STIs or other areas of health.* The only exceptions are the government-organized (optional) screenings for some common cancers, for which you will get invites once you are in an at-risk age group. It's similar to how vaccination programs work, if I had to draw a comparison. When it comes to cervical cancer screening (so pap smear), those screenings start at 30 and are also way less frequent than the advice I see on here.
Interestingly, after a lot of digging I also found this article: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sexual- ... -maybe-not
The information presented there is way more like the sexual health advice of my country, and rather different from the common attitude on the boards and in other articles.
Anxiety about medical visits and/or not having easy access to them are common themes I've seen in users' posts. Combine that with the fact some countries do not subscribe to this idea (and I see no reason to assume Western European health advice is any less science-backed than US American), and I can't help but wonder if this "frequent screening is essential for your health" stance is maybe putting unnecessary pressure on people.
So I guess my question is: what's up with that? Is it simply because a lot of advice here is based on US healthcare (I more often than not see US organizations listed as sources) and so this cultural norm has become dominant? Or is there more to it, like deliberate disagreement with the concept of only seeking out healthcare when at risk/symptomatic/seeking answers? I guess I just wonder if this is something on you folks' radar, and if not, I wanted to bring attention to it.
Let me know if I should clarify something or if I'm suffering from a glaring bias I cannot see myself.
*just to be really clear once again: this advice doesn't mean "only test if you have symptoms". More "only test if you have symptoms, were at risk or are about to pose a risk to others, are worried or otherwise have concerns" aka have a reason to get tested outside of the last time being a year ago
I want to preface my post with saying that I am super grateful for the important work you are all doing! What I'm about to discuss is meant as feedback, not senseless criticism.
Having read around this site a lot over the course of 3 years, I've noticed something about the way medical visits are treated. It all seems, for lack of a better term, very culturally US-centric.
What I mean by that is that there is a lot of focus on preventative screenings/checkups. I don't know how wide-spread this attitude is in other cultures, but I do know this is a common stance in the US and not, for example, where I'm from. Here, you only go to a doctor when you have reason to assume something is wrong or you have questions. Screening when healthy is actively discouraged by official health organisations, whether that concerns STIs or other areas of health.* The only exceptions are the government-organized (optional) screenings for some common cancers, for which you will get invites once you are in an at-risk age group. It's similar to how vaccination programs work, if I had to draw a comparison. When it comes to cervical cancer screening (so pap smear), those screenings start at 30 and are also way less frequent than the advice I see on here.
Interestingly, after a lot of digging I also found this article: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sexual- ... -maybe-not
The information presented there is way more like the sexual health advice of my country, and rather different from the common attitude on the boards and in other articles.
Anxiety about medical visits and/or not having easy access to them are common themes I've seen in users' posts. Combine that with the fact some countries do not subscribe to this idea (and I see no reason to assume Western European health advice is any less science-backed than US American), and I can't help but wonder if this "frequent screening is essential for your health" stance is maybe putting unnecessary pressure on people.
So I guess my question is: what's up with that? Is it simply because a lot of advice here is based on US healthcare (I more often than not see US organizations listed as sources) and so this cultural norm has become dominant? Or is there more to it, like deliberate disagreement with the concept of only seeking out healthcare when at risk/symptomatic/seeking answers? I guess I just wonder if this is something on you folks' radar, and if not, I wanted to bring attention to it.
Let me know if I should clarify something or if I'm suffering from a glaring bias I cannot see myself.
*just to be really clear once again: this advice doesn't mean "only test if you have symptoms". More "only test if you have symptoms, were at risk or are about to pose a risk to others, are worried or otherwise have concerns" aka have a reason to get tested outside of the last time being a year ago