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i actually do not know how to orgasm ALONE!!! help pls i've never ever had one and i'd certainly love to. give me specific information pls!!! i am a cis girl!!!!! pls do not be vague i want to know pls i want to know the secret
bro pls

hi goodluckbabe,
There is not a secret nor specific instructions we can give you. I think what will be more helpful, especially if you feel frustrated by vague information, is to read about sexual response and orgasm here: Sexual Response & Orgasm: A Users Guide, and then let us know what questions you have after reading.

And, I encourage you to also look at the sections "How do you masturbate" and "Here are some common ways people masturbate with their genitals" on this article: Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation

But, overall, masturbation and sex are not just about orgasm. When we set orgasm as the goal, it can put a lot of pressure on what could be an experience of exploration and learning what feels good..... and exploration and learning what feels good in a low-pressure, low-stress way, is usually the path to orgasm. Does that make sense?