Many Worries. Please Help!
Posted: Fri Aug 08, 2014 9:30 pm
Hello.
I recently had anal sex with my boyfriend. He did not ejaculate inside me, he just went in and out a few times. I'm highly worried about STIs and pregnancy. We didn't use any protection.
I'm aware that the rectum is very fragile and easy to tear. Both of us are complete virgins, and I know that with extreme certainty. We've both only had one relationship before each other, and we only kissed our previous partners. There are no risks for STIs from previous partners. We are each our first serious and sexual relationship. I didn't know that if I possibly tore the rectum or anything like that if we could create an STI. I really don't want anything, and I don't think I have any, but I just wanted to know if it were possible for us to start an STI with no family history or previous partners that could be the cause.
Very recently we tried anal again. We used lubricant this time, but still no condom. (We have trouble with condoms and making them stay on.) I understand that this is very dangerous. While we were messing around, he slipped out and slid down slightly. He did not enter my vagina and I'm not sure if he actually touched the outside. It's hard to tell when I'm facing the other direction. He did ejaculate this time but pulled out before he did. I'm very scared of getting pregnant. I'm only 15 and an honors student with a bright future ahead of me. I don't know if I could get pregnant this way. I'm very scared. I don't want a baby. I need some guidance about what can cause pregnancy. I've read many of the articles on Scarleteen, and they helped some, but I'm still extremely confused and scared.
My period isn't scheduled to start for another 8 days. Today my boyfriend and I stopped by a CVS and looked at getting the Plan B pill. I decided not to purchase it because I wasn't sure if I had a real chance of pregnancy. I didn't want to purchase something that I didn't truly need. I'm an extremely paranoid person and I need reassurance and guidance. My boyfriend continues to tell me I'm not pregnant but I don't believe him. He has an entirely different body part. How would he know? I'm really worried about pregnancy and STIs. Help would truly be appreciated.
I recently had anal sex with my boyfriend. He did not ejaculate inside me, he just went in and out a few times. I'm highly worried about STIs and pregnancy. We didn't use any protection.
I'm aware that the rectum is very fragile and easy to tear. Both of us are complete virgins, and I know that with extreme certainty. We've both only had one relationship before each other, and we only kissed our previous partners. There are no risks for STIs from previous partners. We are each our first serious and sexual relationship. I didn't know that if I possibly tore the rectum or anything like that if we could create an STI. I really don't want anything, and I don't think I have any, but I just wanted to know if it were possible for us to start an STI with no family history or previous partners that could be the cause.
Very recently we tried anal again. We used lubricant this time, but still no condom. (We have trouble with condoms and making them stay on.) I understand that this is very dangerous. While we were messing around, he slipped out and slid down slightly. He did not enter my vagina and I'm not sure if he actually touched the outside. It's hard to tell when I'm facing the other direction. He did ejaculate this time but pulled out before he did. I'm very scared of getting pregnant. I'm only 15 and an honors student with a bright future ahead of me. I don't know if I could get pregnant this way. I'm very scared. I don't want a baby. I need some guidance about what can cause pregnancy. I've read many of the articles on Scarleteen, and they helped some, but I'm still extremely confused and scared.
My period isn't scheduled to start for another 8 days. Today my boyfriend and I stopped by a CVS and looked at getting the Plan B pill. I decided not to purchase it because I wasn't sure if I had a real chance of pregnancy. I didn't want to purchase something that I didn't truly need. I'm an extremely paranoid person and I need reassurance and guidance. My boyfriend continues to tell me I'm not pregnant but I don't believe him. He has an entirely different body part. How would he know? I'm really worried about pregnancy and STIs. Help would truly be appreciated.