How to make it sexy again?

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meemelcha
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How to make it sexy again?

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Hiya,

I have been seeing this guy exclusively for almost two years now, it is my first long-term relationship, and I am worried because I feel like i might be losing interest in sex, but I still totally love him like tons. What can I do to make the sex fun again?

Thanks everyone!
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Re: How to make it sexy again?

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Do you feel like the primary reason you are feeling less desire is because when you do have sex, isn't not feeling fun or satisfying for you anymore? I ask because you asked about making sex fun again, which suggests it hasn't been fun.

If so, can you start by filling us in on that, and what feels like it's changed for you, if you did previously feel like sex was satisfying and fun?
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