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Riley512
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Bleeding

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I'm 18 years old and almost every time I have tried doing stuff with a guy I end up bleeding.. It's extremely embarrassing and it is stopping me from talking to guys and or doing stuff with them.. I'm not close enough with my mom to ask about this but I don't know what's going on or what's wrong with me
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Re: Bleeding

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Hi Riley,

The most likely culprits are some combination of not enough lubrication and being tense. Do those sound like they match with your experiences? Do you also bleed when you masturbate (if you masturbate in a way that involves penetration)?

Also, check out this article and see if anything in there jumps out at you:
From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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