Intimacy with my Boyfriend
Posted: Mon Oct 05, 2015 8:45 pm
My boyfriend and I are both 17, he is almost 18 and we have been in a relationship for 3 years. We've been sexually active for a little more than a year and were both very comfortable with one another and expressing our wants, needs and limits.(both in the bed and out :p) We are both extremely responsible: we don't drink or do drugs, we don't really sneak around etc...
Our desires when it comes to being intimate goes far beyond the scope of sex. Really any time I spend alone with him is something to be treasured. Just being able to have private face to face convo, hold and kiss eachother, play video games, watch movies (and of course if things get steamy, intercourse) is really important to the both of us.
Because I am still living with my parents and my boyfriend and I are both unable to drive, times where we can have this privacy is extremely limited. I would love to sit down and open up with my parents and tell them what it is I want, allow them to give me their opinion and set limits, and just have an overall respectful convo about the whole situation but I don't even know where to begin. As of now my parents are relatively lenient (leaving us alone in a room together and checking infrequently), but they still act like they don't want us getting too close. I want to somehow "ask" for permission/opportunities to have alone time without coming off as ungrateful or a brat.I want to be open with my parents but im scared if I have this convo it will come as a shock and they will never let me have the alone time we want so badly.
We use condoms every time we have sex, but I feel like its time for me to get on birth control. Plus, it would feel amazing to be so open with my mom and/or dad. (most likely just my mom ) I really am unsure how to start and hold a convo on this topic with my parents but its a convo that NEEDS to happen. I feel so lost.
Our desires when it comes to being intimate goes far beyond the scope of sex. Really any time I spend alone with him is something to be treasured. Just being able to have private face to face convo, hold and kiss eachother, play video games, watch movies (and of course if things get steamy, intercourse) is really important to the both of us.
Because I am still living with my parents and my boyfriend and I are both unable to drive, times where we can have this privacy is extremely limited. I would love to sit down and open up with my parents and tell them what it is I want, allow them to give me their opinion and set limits, and just have an overall respectful convo about the whole situation but I don't even know where to begin. As of now my parents are relatively lenient (leaving us alone in a room together and checking infrequently), but they still act like they don't want us getting too close. I want to somehow "ask" for permission/opportunities to have alone time without coming off as ungrateful or a brat.I want to be open with my parents but im scared if I have this convo it will come as a shock and they will never let me have the alone time we want so badly.
We use condoms every time we have sex, but I feel like its time for me to get on birth control. Plus, it would feel amazing to be so open with my mom and/or dad. (most likely just my mom ) I really am unsure how to start and hold a convo on this topic with my parents but its a convo that NEEDS to happen. I feel so lost.