Just really good friends or something more?
Posted: Wed Nov 25, 2015 9:16 am
Hello new member here, who's pretty confused about her feelings (prepare for a long post)...
So, the story is as follows - at the beginning of this year I've met this fun guy. We met at the selection interview for study abroad in our university. Fast forward to present time - we're both studying abroad in the same university. We hit off pretty much straight away (maybe the first few days together have been awkward, but then again - we pretty much were strangers at that point). He's funny, cute, really really smart and just generally very nice guy and we spent a lot of time together. And I started to notice, that maybe I like him more than like a friend. Point is, that I don't know whether it's just another one sided crush or in the case that I really like him, whether that feeling is mutual... Our campus is bus ride away from nearest shopping centre or the city itself. He often goes out of his way to help me with something that he can do, like buying me my favourite jam (even though I didn't ask), missing a bus, when another doesn't come for at least couple of hours, so he could go and buy me some groceries in nearby store... He takes interest in my hobbies, interests, studies, taste of music (asking about my favourite styles and even gives a chance to some styles he didn't really like before). He often makes stupid bets with me and making me laugh, almost constantly he teases me or treats me to dinner, when he looses a bet. He also recently started to touch me more - like tousling my hair... I don't know if he's doing that just because we're really good friends or is he trying to show that he kind of likes more than a friend?.. I don't want to make any assumptions or say anything about it directly to him, because I'm afraid of making our friendship really awkward if I misunderstood his intentions...
So, the story is as follows - at the beginning of this year I've met this fun guy. We met at the selection interview for study abroad in our university. Fast forward to present time - we're both studying abroad in the same university. We hit off pretty much straight away (maybe the first few days together have been awkward, but then again - we pretty much were strangers at that point). He's funny, cute, really really smart and just generally very nice guy and we spent a lot of time together. And I started to notice, that maybe I like him more than like a friend. Point is, that I don't know whether it's just another one sided crush or in the case that I really like him, whether that feeling is mutual... Our campus is bus ride away from nearest shopping centre or the city itself. He often goes out of his way to help me with something that he can do, like buying me my favourite jam (even though I didn't ask), missing a bus, when another doesn't come for at least couple of hours, so he could go and buy me some groceries in nearby store... He takes interest in my hobbies, interests, studies, taste of music (asking about my favourite styles and even gives a chance to some styles he didn't really like before). He often makes stupid bets with me and making me laugh, almost constantly he teases me or treats me to dinner, when he looses a bet. He also recently started to touch me more - like tousling my hair... I don't know if he's doing that just because we're really good friends or is he trying to show that he kind of likes more than a friend?.. I don't want to make any assumptions or say anything about it directly to him, because I'm afraid of making our friendship really awkward if I misunderstood his intentions...