Scarleteen

Um.. I'm sorry to bother anyone but I just have a small question..
well, my boyfriend and I are saving ... um... sex until marriage and that's a ways away so we used to .. um...touch I guess, well he has asked me not to do that anymore because he feels guilty and I completely understood but he does complain about feeling... hormonal.. so is there anyway I can help him without sending pictures or touching him like that? I hate seeing him so.. frustrated..

Hi moonflower,

If the two have you have agreed that you're not comfortable being sexual in any way right now, and he is feeling like he has sexual energy to release, masturbation is the way to go for him. If you'd like, I can also give you an article that talks about ways to be intimate that do not involve sex.