Should I lose my virginity in a threesome?
Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 1:54 pm
So, I'm good friends with this girl who I've known for a while now, and she has a boyfriend. So today, the topic of sex came up while I was talking to her- We're both bisexual, and she, apparently, has had a lot of sexual experience with her boyfriend, including more 'extreme' kinky stuff. I haven't even kissed anyone yet, but I'm fairly well-informed on safe sex, and I do masturbate and know what I'd like in a sexual situation. So... she asked me if I wanted to participate in a threesome with her and her boyfriend. Not in an immediate sense, but more as in a 'sometime in the near future' sense. In my head, where it's all perfect I would be screaming 'YES!!!', I mean, it sounds wonderful. But this is real life, and I know it wouldn't be all smooth-sailing... It would be my first time, and they're tons more experienced than me- I'm just about fifteen, and they're fifteen and sixteen, both in the grade above me at school.
The girl was really nice about it- she wasn't forcing me into anything, she kept on checking if she was making me uncomfortable and told me, numerous times, that I did not have to say yes and we could just leave it alone and never bring it up again if I wanted. But I didn't say no, I said maybe. Because part of me is like, 'I know these people, I trust them, they would be the perfect people to gain some experience with', but I'm also just freaking out at the idea. Having a threesome when I've never done anything before? Isn't that a little... off? I don't know, I know that I'd enjoy it, and that it won't happen anytime in the next few months anyway, realistically, I'm just a bit conflicted. I really, really want to do it, but I'm just a bit jittery as, you know, I've never done anything of the sort ever.
The girl was really nice about it- she wasn't forcing me into anything, she kept on checking if she was making me uncomfortable and told me, numerous times, that I did not have to say yes and we could just leave it alone and never bring it up again if I wanted. But I didn't say no, I said maybe. Because part of me is like, 'I know these people, I trust them, they would be the perfect people to gain some experience with', but I'm also just freaking out at the idea. Having a threesome when I've never done anything before? Isn't that a little... off? I don't know, I know that I'd enjoy it, and that it won't happen anytime in the next few months anyway, realistically, I'm just a bit conflicted. I really, really want to do it, but I'm just a bit jittery as, you know, I've never done anything of the sort ever.