Scarleteen

Hi, is it okay for me to think about my mom's friend (who I really find attractive) or my sisters friend (who I also find attractive)? I don't think about them sexually when I am not masturbating, only when I am masturbating. Also, I have a sexual fascination and interest in MILF'S and public sex/nudity. I have never had sex but the thought of it in general and whenever I watch those kind of things in porn, I get really turned on.

Hi Jacko,

It's pretty normal for people to fantasize about people they know when they masturbate. As long as that doesn't change how you treat them when you meet them in reality, it's not cause for concern. And it's okay to have specific things that you find arousing. With porn, as long as you understand that this is a very specific type of reality that you're watching (one that's staged and designed to look a certain way), there isn't an issue with exploring it.