I also want to add that figuring something out as big as what you like sexually and what your body responds to, and learning to orgasm, in just a month or so, and without any of your own experimentation would be about as realistic as figuring out how to do brain surgery in that same time period.
Your boyfriend, for instance, if he knows all of this stuff about himself, and he experiences orgasm, has at least probably learned on his own from masturbation over a great deal of time -- years or more -- on top of if he has learned anything about his own sexual response and likes with partners.
You may also need to remind him about all of this yourself, that this DOES take time, and that it also isn't something he can make happen, so much as things you need to learn on your own, and then you two need to learn over time together, and not by trying to "make" you orgasm. Instead, if you both just lead with what you want and what feels good to you, in time, you'll learn those things -- and he will learn them about you, but probably can't learn anything about you you don't first learn for and about yourself. And only when those things are going on -- when you're doing only what you want and like, and when what you're doing are things you really enjoy -- is orgasm at all likely to happen. Even then, there can be other pieces to that (like having time with a partner to feel relaxed and uninhibited enough, things it sounds like you already know for yourself aren't there yet), but those things are ground zero. Make sense?
Too, if you don't feel comfortable with any of this yet with him, and feel too self-conscious -- so much so that perhaps you are "just lying there" rather than being a more active participant -- you won't help yourself in any department by being sexual with him in any way you don't feel pretty comfortable with and confident about yet. It may be you need to ask him to step things back here, letting him know what you DO feel comfortable with so far, and DO know you really like, to boot, and sticking only with those things. And really, that's the kind of stuff he should be focused on way more than whether or not you orgasm: even if you experience orgasm, if you don't feel comfortable and feel self-conscious, an orgasm isn't likely to be a good experience for you. On the other hand, when you like what's happening, physically and emotionally, and you feel pretty comfortable, you'll likely enjoy yourself whether or not orgasm happens.