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Hello!

I am just trying to ease my worries. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend and I had an incident where he slipped inside of me, not all the way, but without a condom and only for a few seconds before he pulled out. The next day, I took plan b to be safe as I was on day 12 of my cycle, and 6 days later, about 11 days before my period was due to start, I started spotting, which eventually turned into heavy bleeding like my period and lasted four days as it usually does. My question is, since it was so early, was this my period, or could I still be pregnant?

We can't ever tell someone what is or isn't their menstrual period. The only way any of us can know what is or isn't our own periods is by observing the patterns of our periods over time (as in, over years, or, for those of us who have had them this long, decades) -- like when they happen, what they feel and look like, how long they last, etc. -- and then seeing if the kind of flow, and how the whole works feels, seems to be a match for the most part.

Per your pregnancy concern:
We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

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