Questions

[szpachla12]

Hello! I have read pregnancy panic companion and articles about sperm being very fragile etc.
But still I am a little bit worried - my girlfriend, I am with her since last two weeks and 6 days ago she should have her period but it didnt came, its late and I am becoming more and more worried - we had manual sex, and oral sex with ejaculation only in her mouth, but im worried that maybe she could have touched that ejaculate and touch her vulva/vagina - is it possible to get pregnant this way or sperm cells would be broken in process of going from mouth to hand to vulva?

I am aware that manual sex doesnt pose any risk of pregnancy (unless its deliberate insertion with full ejaculation) but im wondering if during oral such thing would be possible?

[Heather]

Welcome to the boards, szpachla12.

Alas, we will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

But we CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

If you'd like to talk about anything like that, feel free to make another thread with one or more of those topics related to this.

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