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[Elsiesmama]

Hi there, i havent posted in a while becauze i thought i have gotten my sex life in order. However i realized yesterday i missed my period a week ago. I sort of doubt of pregnant but im not sure. Me and my boyfriend do sexual things the same way every time. We only do manual sex together. However looking back i think we had manual sex where he came and it mostly got on his shirt and my hands. Would it be a pregnancy risk if say a drop of cum got on my vulva? Or maybe transferred from ky hand to my vulva? I wanna say no, but i dont know. I have gained weight and i dont know if that throw my body off. I also experienced pink or bloody discharge which i thkught was my period but it stopped sudenly. Could it be implantation bleeding?

[Carmen]

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