Pregnancy risk? Help.

[spicey]

I am 17 days late from my period. My last period was April 13 but according to my record, I started to have egg white discharge aroung May 9-14. I believe I was still fertile on May 14, that was the time we had sex. It was only one time and we were using condom plus pull out method. However, he ejaculated on my stomach and somewhere to my mons pubis. He was lying on top of my while gliding his penis on my stomach (i am sorry if this is too much detailed). Is there a possibility that I would get pregnant on this? He never put it inside his penis inside my vagina without a condom. My fear was what if his ejaculation dripped down and met with my wet discharges during the intercouse. Right after the intercourse, I went to the bathroom and have a shower. Was there a possibility?

I took pregnancy test on my 10th day 13th 14th day delayed and all are negative. My boyfriend keeps on telling me that nothing will happen because he ejaculated on top of me. Is my delayed period due to my anxiety? my summer environment? because I am from the other city. My change of daily routine?

Usually I am 12-13 days delayed and this is so far my longest delayed of my life. I am 23 years old btw.

[Heather]

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