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Okay, so the weekend after mothers day my ex girlfriend and I engaged in some oral and manual sexual activity. I think she was ovulating or was close to it at the time. I finished and got a bit of semen on my hand, which I believe I wiped off. About two minutes later I fingered her, and this has worried me ever since. All of last month she cramped heavily sometimes to the point of not being able to move for a few minutes. We broke up last Tuesday, she got what I think is a period on Monday. It came while she was at my house and it was thick and in abundance.She bled for 6 days in total, but lighter after the second day. She told me it was red the entire time, if that means anything. I don t know if I am just grasping at straws or have a real means for worry. Could this be implantation? Thanks.

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