Scarleteen

I belive it is called the inner labia. Anyways I am 14 years old, I am a virgin but have been fingered a few times by my boyfriend. The last time something like that happened was around February though. Recently I've been getting pain in my inner labia, where it hurts to close my legs, or wear underwear. I can't tell if it's swollen bc I rarely see it.. I am afraid to ask my mom because she will most likely ask to see and I am not comfortable with that. Thanks

Hi Whatusername.

When you're having genital pain or discomfort that's been going on for more than a few days (which it sounds like it has), and when it's severe enough that it's painful to wear underwear, the best step is to seek out in-person healthcare. Do you think if you spoke to your mother about this - making it clear right from the start that you're not comfortable with her looking - that she would help you arrange to see a doctor?