Pregnancy Concern

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Pregnancy Concern

Unread post by crazycatgirl »

So about two years ago, my gynecologist put me on the pill because I was dealing with ovarian cysts. The pills that I take don't have a placebo week, so I never go off of the actual contraceptive, and I don't get periods. I've started to have sex with my boyfriend, and we didn't use a condom once. I made him stop because it was uncomfortable for me, but I'm still worried that I could be pregnant because I've been spotting lately. What are the chances of me actually being pregnant when I don't have periods, and what are the symptoms of pregnancy if you are on the pill but don't have periods?
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Re: Pregnancy Concern

Unread post by Heather »

Whether or not someone does or doesn't experience withdrawal bleeds when using a hormonal method has no impact on their risk of becoming pregnant. Oral contraceptives, used in a way where someone does or doesn't have withdrawal bleeds, are over 99% effective in perfect use in one year, and around 91% effective in one year of typical use.

Regarding pregnancy symptoms and other questions based in pregnancy fears:
We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
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