Hurt my penis. Help
Hurt my penis. Help
Hurt my penis and I don't know what to do
My first time geting a blow job and her first time giving one something went wrong. It was painful I had to ask her to stop. the bottom side of my penis by the head is very red and sore it hurts to touch and there's a tiny scab on it. It's bin like this for a few days now it's very painful if it rubs my underwear or I touch it I don't know what to do. I can't tell my parents. Do I need to go to the doctor could it be a std? How do I get it to stop hurting
My first time geting a blow job and her first time giving one something went wrong. It was painful I had to ask her to stop. the bottom side of my penis by the head is very red and sore it hurts to touch and there's a tiny scab on it. It's bin like this for a few days now it's very painful if it rubs my underwear or I touch it I don't know what to do. I can't tell my parents. Do I need to go to the doctor could it be a std? How do I get it to stop hurting
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Re: Hurt my penis. Help
Hi Nmason,
If this has been going on for several days and is not improving, then your best option is to go to the doctor. They should be able to tell you what's going on and help you figure out how to treat the issue.
If this has been going on for several days and is not improving, then your best option is to go to the doctor. They should be able to tell you what's going on and help you figure out how to treat the issue.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
Re: Hurt my penis. Help
I really can't tell my parents what happened. And I can't go to the doctor without them. School is out for the summer so I can't go to the nurse. I don't know what to do
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Re: Hurt my penis. Help
You don't necessarily need to tell them all the details. You can say you're having a rash that you're worried about and you need to see a doctor to get it checked out.
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I think I could tell my mom that and she will not ask to see it. Can I tell the doctor that it's a rash? My mom likes to ask a million questions every time I'm sick.
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Re: Hurt my penis. Help
So, putting aside the need to maybe lie to your parents about what happened, I would say that lying to your doctor would not be helpful. If they know it was an injury caused by a human mouth, that would help them figure out how to treat it. And as a doctor, they're not supposed to tell your parents if you tell them not to, as far as I know. So your mom wouldn't find out.
Re: Hurt my penis. Help
I think she is going to tell my mom if I told her that
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I'm going to ask my friends mom what to do she is a nurse and is cool she will not tell my mom what happened.
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I showed it to my friends mom she told me it looks like a infected cut and I should go to the doctor. Thanks for your help
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Re: Hurt my penis. Help
Hi Nmason,
I am glad you were able to reach out to her for help. And in response to seeing a doctor, doctors often have rules in place about respecting the confidentiality of their patients (these rules can vary with minors) so if it would make you feel better, I would suggest checking in with your doctor about if what you say to them will be kept anonymous/confidential.
I am glad you were able to reach out to her for help. And in response to seeing a doctor, doctors often have rules in place about respecting the confidentiality of their patients (these rules can vary with minors) so if it would make you feel better, I would suggest checking in with your doctor about if what you say to them will be kept anonymous/confidential.
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