Hilarious Sex
Posted: Wed Jul 20, 2016 2:20 pm
I just want to post a little hurrah for hilarious sex. Hip-hip! ...
We often get the message that in sex you have to be cool or sexy and that 'successful' sex is the most physically pleasurable. There is often a big emphasis on reaching orgasm. For me however, it going completely 'wrong' can be just as fulfilling when you realise how much you and a partner can laugh.
I have to say with me some of the best moments have been when you want to try something new and it completely fails someone falls over or a condom flies accross the room.
Yet when I think about sex I'd like to be having in my life hilarity doesn't always factor into my fantasies or ideals. I guess because fantasies are planned, and humour is usually from something unaccepted. Or maybe I've just been brainwashed by cultural and pop-cultural ideals of 'cool sex'
So I'm interested... what makes sex hilarious for you?
Does it factor into how you think you'd like your future sex life to be?
We often get the message that in sex you have to be cool or sexy and that 'successful' sex is the most physically pleasurable. There is often a big emphasis on reaching orgasm. For me however, it going completely 'wrong' can be just as fulfilling when you realise how much you and a partner can laugh.
I have to say with me some of the best moments have been when you want to try something new and it completely fails someone falls over or a condom flies accross the room.
Yet when I think about sex I'd like to be having in my life hilarity doesn't always factor into my fantasies or ideals. I guess because fantasies are planned, and humour is usually from something unaccepted. Or maybe I've just been brainwashed by cultural and pop-cultural ideals of 'cool sex'
So I'm interested... what makes sex hilarious for you?
Does it factor into how you think you'd like your future sex life to be?