Confused.

[Laladede]

Hello. I don't really know where to begin but my period has been due for a day now and I have had no signs of it showing (no breast tenderness, no cramps). I wouldn't be concerned but I did engage in manual sex and oral. I preformed oral on my bf while he performed manual sex on me. I was unclothed and he had his shorts off. He ejaculated but he sort of caught it in his hand. My concern is if some managed to come in contact with me since I was naked.
I think I would have noticed if it shot onto me but still.

I suppose my questions are could I be pregnant if sperm was "shot" onto my vulva from a few feet or if he had sperm on his hand?

I apologize for the questions..I know you guys get swarmed by pregnancy scares and I wouldn't have even considered posting if I wasn't freaking out as much as I am. Thank you all for your time.

[Sam W]

Hi Laladede,
We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

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• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
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You mentioned worries about a late period. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4595

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