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Questions about the actual penis-in-the-vagina thing

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Calla Lily
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Questions about the actual penis-in-the-vagina thing

Unread post by Calla Lily »

So, I know that sex is different for everyone, that size doesn't matter, that there is no wrong or right way to find pleasure in physical contact, everyone's bodies are different, etc.

But I have a few general (and potentially stupid) questions about the actual penis-in-the-vagina part of sex. I have no where else to ask these, so I hope I can find some answers here.

How far in does the penis go? Is the shaft usually still exposed outside of the vagina or does it fit in up to the testicles? How deep is the vagina? What happens after the guy ejaculates? He loses his hard at some point, so does he just fall out? What actually happens in that time immediately following sex? How hard does a penis get? How does the penis get in the vagina in the first place? Does it just fit? How do you stimulate the clitoris while he's inside of you? Isn't sex tiring? How are you supposed to move around during sex?

I know a lot of these are subjective and vary from person to person, I just want some advice and specific answers. Thanks! :D
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Re: Questions about the actual penis-in-the-vagina thing

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Have you first searched the main site for these questions, as we ask users to do in the registration agreement for the boards? We have thousands of articles there, and wet already have answers on the site to most of what you've asked here. :)
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Re: Questions about the actual penis-in-the-vagina thing

Unread post by Jfowler123 »

Following as I am wondering the same things
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