Pregnancy risk

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Random12
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Pregnancy risk

Unread post by Random12 »

Hello. I am 16 and quite scared and i cant sleep eat or concentrate on anything. So basically before two days me and my gf were naked in the bathroom and i startes fingering her and she gave me a hand job. But then my penis touched the vagina of my gf for a split second(i remember it it was for a veri little time). So this was all in the begging and i dont think that there was precum or anything on the tip of my penis but then again its better to assume the worsta case scenario. After my penis touched ny gfs vagina for a spli second my dumb ass continued fingering her without thinking about it. I am 100% sure that there wasnt any sperm involved in this at all and also i urinated before that and had a couple of pre-ejaculations before this situation but ofc i am still very scared and i would really appreciate it if you helped me.
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Re: Pregnancy risk

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Random,

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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