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Ok so here it starts! I am a 25 year old woman with irregular periods. So about a couple of weeks ago(18 days to be exact), me and my boyfriend were involved in dry humping in missionary position. Though I got wet, he did not ejaculate nor produced any pre cum and he was wearing boxers and his underwear and I was wearing my panties and yoga pants(very thin). Apart from that he did finger me for sometime. I guess it was a bit deep because it hurt me a lil for 24 hrs. So one week after this thing happened, I have been experiencing PMS like cramps(my period should come anytime now), nauseous(not sure if that is because I am being super paranoid), fatigue, and i have a slight cold now. Well, additional info is that there is a weather change out here and I could be having stomach flu and all, because I have been feeling nauseous, dizzy, and having gastric problems apart from the regular PMS symptoms like cramps, uneasiness, mood swings, food cravings(spicy and sweet foods), etc.. I am really really scared. Though I know he did not ejaculate or pre cum and I am being very anxious and freaked out and paranoid. Do you by any chance think I could be pregnant?? Why am I not getting my period. Please help!!!!!!!! Thank you!

Hi there,
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