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I had unprotected sex this one time with my bf and it wasn't for long. He was in for maybe a minute and then we stopped wben we realized it could end badly. We're usually really set on using condoms all the time, but that one time we didn't. That happened around the last week of July and i didn't get my period in August. When we first started having sex, we weren't protected, but he never finished inside of me, not even close to. I always got my period normally after those times. I read that you can't get pregnant from precum unless he ejaculated earlier and didn't pee, but he didn't ejaculate before and he always pees before he have sex anyway. Now I'm just super paranoid and I'm always like this even when I have my period, but since it's missed I'm freaking out. I took 2 tests and they were both negative. But I'm still freaking out idk why. Around this time last year I missed my period and didn't get it again until December, so I think that may be what's happening, but I'm not sure. I just need some reassurance. I feel like the only thing that'll make me feel better is a thousand negative tests. Idk why I'm so paranoid. HELP pleaseee.

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