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Pregnancy fear

Posted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 1:26 pm
by leabareilles
Hey guys :) So me and my boyfriend were messing around but we were fully clothed. We were kissing at first, then he pulled out his penis for me to give him a hand job. While I was doing this, I didn't feel any moisture , expect once after a few minutes, but there was so little, I questioned if it was even there. While I am giving him a hand job, he tried putting his fingers under my panties but i didn't let him go too far he has just touched some of my upper pubic hair and i stopped him , keep in mind that he touched his penis many times and might have had some precum (i didn't see him cum) on his fingers that he immediately put on the upper pubic hair as i mentionned but in so small amount that his fingers didnt feel wet at all , now i wonder if i could get pregnant this way ? i am sooo scared and haven' been able to sleep :( please help

Re: Pregnancy fear

Posted: Mon Sep 05, 2016 5:11 am
by Sam W
Hi leabareilles,

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

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