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I am not able to share my feelings. I am guy. I admire beauty of Girls, so much, many a time I feel, I should have been a Girl. Garments, Jewellery, make up, high heels , perfumes - all add to the beauty of girls. I am prompted / fascinated to be girl. I am unable to ignore, I am unable to go ahead. ( no one accepts guy changing to girl, in our society, the procedures are highly costly, I cannot afford, no idea, how will be the outcome, once I become girl, whether I will be really happy, as I feel now, I have to start learning how to behave as girl, how to live as girl, how to date, whether I will get accepted as girl - all are Questions only, no answers at all. Hence conflict. Please guide me. I want any girl to answer my questions. I will be comfortable sharing with girls. I used to spend with girls, when I was KID.thanks .

Mahima: your profile lists you as being 67. Scarleteen's services are intended for those in their teens or twenties, or older people -- like parents -- who have questions pertaining to adolescent sexuality.

Transitioning very late in life is a very different situation than it is for those in the age group we serve. What I would suggest -- and we usually suggest the same to young people -- is that you start by finding a transgender-friendly therapist. I know mental health services can be hard to come by in India, but you can start looking by asking your current general doctor for a general mental health referral.