Common Q: Precum + late period

[Samxdiaz]

Hi, Im sure you get this a lot and my question may be repetative but I dont have anywhere to go right now.
On 23 of august me and my boyfriend were fooling around. (Tmi) My bf penis rubbed against me and very close to my vulva- I had cotton underwear. So he was bare and I happened to be covered with one layer of clothing. He said he did precum a little bit but only about one or two drops and then we stopped bc we knew it MIGHT pose a prego threat so 5-10min after I changed into new underwear and we stopped fooling around.
About a week before my period I spotted a little, very new to me. I told my mother and she said it was normal so I didnt think much of it.
I am currently 3+ days late of my period and I am scared to death.
I dont feel any different, just tender breast (a common pms sign for me) but still no period.
I am stressed a little but usually it doesnt affect it from previous scenarios.
My periods have been irregular, for the past 3 months it finally began to become regular but now.. Not so much.
Please if its no threat help me ease my mind. Im sorry if this is any trouble

[Jacob]

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