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Hello, my boyfriend ejaculated close to my vulva/vagina and I think some got on me on June 11. I took plan B and about five days later got my normal, heavy period. It was NOT light spotting. I had a little spotting before that period, about two days after the incident, from taking the plan B. In late June, I took two pregnancy tests. Both were negative, one was with first morning urine. I was still afraid the next month when my period was a little late, so I went to a clinic and got a negative result in late July. My period came the day after I received this result. I had anxiety again in August, so I took two more tests and both were negative, one with first morning urine. I got my period again. However, throughout those months I had abdominal muscle spasms. Last week I had snot-like discharge, which I've read sometimes comes before a period. I am now a few days late and I'm so afraid. Could I be four months and now know it? Please help.

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