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So I need help or advice :/

I'm 17 and I think I may be pregnant ?
I know I'm young and I've Made the dumbest decisions ever.
So one weekend I got black out drunk .. And I was with a group of freinds. My "boyfreind" was there as well too. But I ended up Losing my virginity to some random guy whom I don't even talk to .. And I had sex with my boyfreind as well. They are bother 20 years old and I don't want go get any of them in trouble.

Well it hit me the next week! I didn't know if either guy used a condom .. I asked my "boyfreind" and he said he didn't even get to finish .. But I don't believe it .. Because there's also Pre-cum right? Anyways I felt terrible at the fact that I slept with the other guy before him .. But it happened there's nothing I can do about it. Plus me and my boyfreind broke up . Anyways I don't actually know if the other guy used a condom or not .. And I wasn't in any form of birth control.
So it's been 2 weeks exactly.
I've been stressed out from all that's happened and I've been experiencing some symptoms like:

-nauseated
-dizziness
-random gagging and strong sense of smell
-headaches
-cramps in my stomach
-bloating
-and pain or tenderness in my breast.
-I've been frequently urinating a lot too
-fatigue

I had to bring my self to think that maybe I'm just overthinking it ? Because I haven't gotten my period. But I'm also irregular with my menstrual cycle. I do know that I was ovulating that week that I had sex so.. I'm just over all confused and I CANT tell my parents.
I just need to know if I'm pregnant or just over thinking and it's all because of stress ???? But what if he did use a condom ? Could I still be pregnant?? Please help!!

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