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Abnormal withdrawal bleed
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Abnormal withdrawal bleed
This is a post I made on Tuesday:
"Okay, so my period is really REALLY heavy this month. In the 24 hours since it started, I’ve noticed at least five quarter-sized (or larger) clots. And when I showered, the water at my feet was pink the entire time. Even though I showered for like a full ten minutes trying to rinse away the worst of the blood. It never actually stopped—I just gave up on standing at that point.
Also, I’ve had a few bits of…lighter stuff? Grayish tissue, maybe? Or maybe it wasn’t tissue—I didn’t exactly touch it. It could have been cervical fluid? I don’t know what that’s supposed to look like.
I feel weak and woozy. Why is it suddenly like this? Should I be worried?"
I was unwise and did not go to see a doctor. Yesterday, I posted this:
"I’m still dropping blood clots the size of quarters or larger (sometimes like an inch and a half across, maybe even two inches) rather frequently. No more weird colored…tissue? Fluid? But so much blood loss.
I lost count, but I’d estimate I’ve had at least thirty blood clots bigger than a quarter. Possibly as many as forty or fifty. Big range, I know. I wish I’d kept a tally.
I’m taking iron supplements, but I feel awful. I feel really awful…"
My withdrawal bleed began and ended on time, but I'm still worried because this was so far outside the norm. I contacted my doctor, but she didn't get back to me today, so I'm worried I won't hear back until Monday, and I'd like to know if this is pressing enough to seek care sooner.
I take hbc pills daily, always at the same time. I was late taking them once two years ago and missed a pill a year and a half ago; I'm accurate enough that those are literally the only lapses I've had since 2/2008.
I also always use a backup birth control method. Condoms, FC2s, or withdrawal (following all advisories very carefully)
So I'm not sure what this could be.
I'm using quotes from closer to the time it happened in the hopes that they're more accurate that way. Please feel free to ask me to clarify anything!
Oh, I also have two male sex partners. Only had piv sex four times total this month. We've all been tested in the last three months.
"Okay, so my period is really REALLY heavy this month. In the 24 hours since it started, I’ve noticed at least five quarter-sized (or larger) clots. And when I showered, the water at my feet was pink the entire time. Even though I showered for like a full ten minutes trying to rinse away the worst of the blood. It never actually stopped—I just gave up on standing at that point.
Also, I’ve had a few bits of…lighter stuff? Grayish tissue, maybe? Or maybe it wasn’t tissue—I didn’t exactly touch it. It could have been cervical fluid? I don’t know what that’s supposed to look like.
I feel weak and woozy. Why is it suddenly like this? Should I be worried?"
I was unwise and did not go to see a doctor. Yesterday, I posted this:
"I’m still dropping blood clots the size of quarters or larger (sometimes like an inch and a half across, maybe even two inches) rather frequently. No more weird colored…tissue? Fluid? But so much blood loss.
I lost count, but I’d estimate I’ve had at least thirty blood clots bigger than a quarter. Possibly as many as forty or fifty. Big range, I know. I wish I’d kept a tally.
I’m taking iron supplements, but I feel awful. I feel really awful…"
My withdrawal bleed began and ended on time, but I'm still worried because this was so far outside the norm. I contacted my doctor, but she didn't get back to me today, so I'm worried I won't hear back until Monday, and I'd like to know if this is pressing enough to seek care sooner.
I take hbc pills daily, always at the same time. I was late taking them once two years ago and missed a pill a year and a half ago; I'm accurate enough that those are literally the only lapses I've had since 2/2008.
I also always use a backup birth control method. Condoms, FC2s, or withdrawal (following all advisories very carefully)
So I'm not sure what this could be.
I'm using quotes from closer to the time it happened in the hopes that they're more accurate that way. Please feel free to ask me to clarify anything!
Oh, I also have two male sex partners. Only had piv sex four times total this month. We've all been tested in the last three months.
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Re: Abnormal withdrawal bleed
Hi Moya,
From what I understand (I can't see any of your previous posts, is this a 2nd username?)... this does sound like it was a pretty heavy withdrawal bleed. In terms of whether this is or isn't an emergency I would say that an appointment as soon as Monday would be fine, even more so as it has ended. There are a lot of potential causes but there's nothing here that screams out to me, apart from your personal concern, that it is an issue that needs addressing sooner. That said, it is your body and if you feel like you could have access to care sooner, and would like to I see no reason why not.
I'm not sure we can say much more than that, hopefully your doctor can help you find out what had been happening.
From what I understand (I can't see any of your previous posts, is this a 2nd username?)... this does sound like it was a pretty heavy withdrawal bleed. In terms of whether this is or isn't an emergency I would say that an appointment as soon as Monday would be fine, even more so as it has ended. There are a lot of potential causes but there's nothing here that screams out to me, apart from your personal concern, that it is an issue that needs addressing sooner. That said, it is your body and if you feel like you could have access to care sooner, and would like to I see no reason why not.
I'm not sure we can say much more than that, hopefully your doctor can help you find out what had been happening.
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
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Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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Re: Abnormal withdrawal bleed
I had an account before the boards changed. Had to make a new one to post this.
Could you give me a list of possibilities? I'm still kind of freaking out. And I don't know for sure when I'll hear back from my doctor--I haven't managed to contact her to make an appointment yet. Might try contacting PP to see if they can help me, but, again, not sure if it's urgent enough for that.
I probably should've done something during my period, but I felt so terrible that I actually called my girlfriend to come over and take care of me, and I didn't think I could get out of bed...
Could you give me a list of possibilities? I'm still kind of freaking out. And I don't know for sure when I'll hear back from my doctor--I haven't managed to contact her to make an appointment yet. Might try contacting PP to see if they can help me, but, again, not sure if it's urgent enough for that.
I probably should've done something during my period, but I felt so terrible that I actually called my girlfriend to come over and take care of me, and I didn't think I could get out of bed...
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Re: Abnormal withdrawal bleed
I really feel you should do as previously advised and get in touch with a healthcare provider, and that you not keep putting it off. And that is the sound person to discuss the possibilities with, since they can examine you and get a health history to ably know what they may be.
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Re: Abnormal withdrawal bleed
As I said, I contacted my doctor. I just haven't heard back from her yet.
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Re: Abnormal withdrawal bleed
Hopefully you hear from them tomorrow, or you get the care you need through other more immediate means (that is up to you).
Just to clarify, I took your earlier question as "Should I see a healthcare professional right now, or on Monday". I still definitely think you should see them one way or the other.
Just to clarify, I took your earlier question as "Should I see a healthcare professional right now, or on Monday". I still definitely think you should see them one way or the other.
"In between two tall mountains there's a place they call lonesome.
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
Don't see why they call it lonesome.
I'm never lonesome when I go there." Connie Converse - Talkin' Like You
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