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Okay so my girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for two years now and we decided to have some thing more than that.

The story is,

On 21/7 and 27/7, we did have mutual masturbation. We acknowledged that unsafe sex will transfer STDs and makes my girlfriend more susceptible to pregnancy. Therefore we only had mutual maturbation, manual sex (fingerings, handjobs). I'm a bit scared of pregnancy chance though since i can't remember whether i have ejaculated on her hand or not (but i think it was only pre-ejaculation). Moreover, i'm afraid because we did touch hand and then i fingered her.


Her periods

3rd of july
1st of august
4th of september


(She had her period two times since the incident)


Also, she had a test on 14/9 and it was a negative.

Can she be pregnant?

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