Pregnancy Scare/Birth Control help.

[Outlanderowl94]

Hello,

So my periods are somewhat irregular (usually 25-28 days) and this last period was somewhat different from others that ive had recently. It was normal bleeding that was definitely period bleeding and not any other kind and i still have had some pregnancy like symptoms after. While ive done LOTS of research and know that there is a very slim chance that anything couldve happened (my bf and i use spermicide condoms coupled with pullout on ejaculation EVERY time), i still have this worry deep down that i may be pregnant. What could i do to calm these fears? I want to get another type of BC but the pill brings an increased risk of breast cancer but i dont know much about them, and im too worried to just go and buy a test. For now we are just taking a break from sex... please help!

[Sam W]

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• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
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You mentioned being interested in starting a new form of birth control. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=4860

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