pregnancy scare

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Priyajain
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pregnancy scare

Unread post by Priyajain »

Help plzzzz My bf fingerend me on 26th may 2016 he didn't *** for sure but i'm not sure if he had precum on his finger.?
I was scheduled to get my periods on 9th June but It came on 4th and that wasn't a normal period for me. Then in July August September I had my normal period. Then on Oct 15th my periods started with bad cramps I normally have then It stopped with in 3..4 hours the flow was light aswell. I have taken about 65 pregnancy test from 4th June and a blood test all negtive so yesterday 14th oct I had pelvic exam and my examiner said I'm not pregnant and my lining is thick I'll start my period within few days and I have ovulated recently. I haven't had any sort of sexual activity since may. Today me period started with very bad cramps and it only lasted for 3...4 hours. Did a pregnancy test and its negtive. Don't know what's going on.
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Re: pregnancy scare

Unread post by Heather »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

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You mentioned you have taken 65 -- 65!!! -- pregnancy tests. I have concern about this if for no other reason than you literally spending every cent you have on tests. Please consider talking to a healthcare provider about this, who might also be able to refer you to care for anxiety, which it sounds like you've been grappling with here and are in the serious grips of.
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For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
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