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I hope you're doing great, I know there are many questions about pregnancy scare, but I don't know if the details of each case change the probability of pregnancy. I read a lot in this page and I think I might not be pregnant, but just to make sure I want to share my story and listen to your advice, if that's ok.
About three days ago (in my fertile window) I had sex for the first time it was a bit hurtful but ok, I still feel my vagina a little bit stretched, is that normal?

I asked my boyfriend to pull out before he came, and he did and he came outside of me (or so he says.......) He used a condom all the time, that I know.

After that, while he was still wearing the condom and about to take it off, I saw he was wet at the base of his penis where the condom starts ( you know by the testicles). Could that be a leak? Or my own lubrication ?

We filled the condominium with water and it did not break.

I didn't get a chance to take a shower although I did pee and cleaned my vulva with toilet paper. Does that affect ? Later that night I did shower.


Could I become pregnant?? I know I must wait until the date when I I get my period and that is in aprox 13 days.

So I would really appreciate your insights to know more info while I wait until the time is right to take a pregnancy test.

It's awful, because I couldn't enjoy this moment because of the worries afterwards.. And I did wait for the moment when it felt right and I "think" we took precautions but I still feel anxiety and worry I might ruin my relationship with him for being so boring and insecure. He has never pushed me to do anything and we waited over over a year to have sex, just to be sure that was what I really wanted.

Thank you

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