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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and have been sexually active for about a year now. Both of us were virgins when we started dating so we do not have previous sexual experience. Whenever we try to have sex, we can never get the position right. We have tried everything from going in from behind, to the missionary position, to me on top, to him on top. And nothing seems to work. He says that he can feel room when he goes in, but he always slips out, or doesn't even go in. Any advice?

Hi Anchor.girl,

There are a few things that might be going on here. Are you two using plenty of lube when you try penetration? And do you feel aroused and relaxed when it occurs, or are you pretty tense?

With some of those positions, have you tried being the one to guide the penis in? Because sometimes it needs a little help getting in at the right angle.